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Saturday, October 27, 2012

An Overly-Protective Boyfriend!

I don't know if other couple experience this but I do; an over-protective boyfriend. I'm not saying he's too attach or anything, it just that he wouldn't let me do things I like. For example, I have a habit chewing on ice. I know it's not good for your health but, think of it as my teeth are hungry for crunchy thingy (???).

He found this habit when we went lunch together and suddenly he's swatting my hand as I was chewing the ice.

"Ouch! What's that for?!"
"Stop eating the ice!"
"Why! *picking up another ice*"
"Haish, *tap!* no!"
"Arghh! My ice!"
"Stop it or we'll break up!"

Yeah, I know he's not gonna do it but I stop eating ice now simply because I love him~ (seriously, I'm not scared of him.  /no ).

Well, that's not the only thing he did. He knew I hate drinking plain water, so my body always dehydrated and feels hot. So whenever I eat ice-cream or simply drink cold water, I easily catch flu, and definitely he didn't like that. So, guess what, now he's forcing me to drink plain water often. I  do  drink it (some of the times). But nowadays I drink it with no forced-feeling (because my mum told me too, not because I'm afraid of him or anything /sweat ).

Another thing he doesn't like me doing is going out late night, whether going alone or with friends. He really hated it. I don't know why, whenever I said I'm going out at night, he'll become grumpy and moody and becoming like an old grandma nagging at me; questioning me why do I have to go at night. For example, this one night, me and my friend was kinda broke (seriously we had no money. I thought we couldn't survive tomorrow), decided to go to the ATM machine to draw out some money. At that time, I told him a bit late (we were already outside the girl's dormitory at 10 p.m).

"What the hell were you thinking going out so late?!"
"What? I'm going to the ATM machine!"
"Why couldn't you go there in the morning?!"
"I had a packed schedule today, this was the only time I had. Beside, I'm going with a friend."
"Don't you know it's dangerous for girls to be outside at this time?!"

To sum up, he was really mad at me. /sweat  But! The next morning I don't know what had gotten to him, he was acting so, so normal, like nothing happened. So I decided not to bring that up. Now, I'm just too lazy to go out at night (still not afraid of him~ /wahaha )

OK, getting to the point! So, one day, I did something really stupid; I provoke all the thing he dislike; all in one day (amazing right? /XD ). He was really pissed! And we got into really huge fight! We were yelling at the top of our lung! (well, most of the time I'm the one who's yelling)

"I hate you! You always treat me like some nine year-old kid!"
". . ."
"You would think I'd do that intentionally to hurt you?! Do you think I'm stupid not knowing how to take care of myself?! I know you're trying to protect me for the better, I know okay! But his is ridiculous! This is so suffocating!!!"
"You know? What do you know? If you really know it, you wouldn't do it. I did all that because I love you, that simple. I have no other intention. If I didn't force you to do it, would you do it? Look at the result, you're not falling sick anymore, you're not injured anymore. What do you really know anyway. If you think me forcing you to do all that is suffocating you, then forget all about it. I don't wanna care anymore."

Waaaa~ /no I know I'm wrong. Forgive me. I have reflected! Finally, just like before, the next day he was acting like nothing happened. And soon started to nag me about my habits. /sweat But it was fine though, I'm glad he didn't hate me and leave me. I admire his patient and tolerance with me. No other guy can stand with my annoying attitude like he does. And I'm so grateful to that despite all the thing I did to him. :)


ok, this is my knight-in-shining-armor, his horse is behind him. LOL~


Sometime I feel, he's too good for me. :(

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